Ironically, we ugly, too black, nappy hair, smell, nigger, go back to Africa, monkey, trash, ignorant, cowards, breeding like rats, and so on. We stood up and raised our hand and proudly yelled through the streets "BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL AND SAY IT LOUD IM BLACK AND IM PROUD!!!!" now you say " you can't be black, proud and beautiful...hummm.. personally I love it when I'm told "you are a beautiful and intelligent black woman " you have it all..." I earned it!!! Brother and sisters don't let nobody make you feel ugly, ignorant and black! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, MELANATED AND INTELLIGENT.. speak the way you choose!! WTF SELF HATE IS A INFLICTION PUT UPON YOU BY OTHER'S! INCLUDING YOUR OWN PEOPLE!! AND FAMILY AS WELL!!! I SURVIVED THE STREETS, EDUCATION, FAMILY, RACISM AND MEN. HATER'S PERIOD, ONE HAS TO LEARN THAT THIS WORLD WILL CHEW YOU UP AND SPIT YOU OUT!!! LOVE YOURSELF AND BE PROUD OF IT!!