Black woman realize the role you play in feminizing your own sons. Although it is not your fault it was a well-planned and orchestrated. Some instead of deflecting or trying to argue a counterpoint which there is not one of. Listen to what's being said to you think on it and let's begin to think like black people instead of slaves and reverse this process for the future generations. In other words we have to teach our daughters and granddaughters to allow the boys in the family to grow into strong masculine men.